What is Effective Communication ???

Jack & Max are walking from religious service. Jack wonders whether it wouldbe all right to smoke while praying.
Max replies, "Why don't you ask from the Priest?"So Jack goes up to the Priest & asks, "Priest, may I smoke while I pray?" But the Priest says,

"No, my son, you may not. That's utter disrespect to our religion."Jack goes back to his friend & tells him what the good Priest told him.Max says, "I'm not surprised. You asked the wrong question. Let me try."And so Max goes up to the Priest & asks, "Priest, may I pray while I smoke?"To which the Priest eagerly replies, "By all means, my son. By all means."
Moral: The reply you get depends on the question you ask.
For Example : Can I work on this project while I'm on vacation ???