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Who said open and close are opposite words? We are always very open to the person whom we are very close..

Living is very simple, loving is also simple, laughing is too simple, winning is also simple, but being simple is very difficult.

Life never leaves you empty. It always, replaces everything you lost, it it asks you to put something down, its beacause it wants you to pick up something greater...


Tintumons 4th law of motion: 'Loose motion can never be done in slow motion'

When you want more time to take correct decision then remember, 'Even a correct decision is worng when it is too late"

Never be sad if sonemone doesnt recognize your worth. its their loss coz people who dont appreciate ur worth dont deserve to know you

Be soft as a flower when it comes to kindness but tuff as thunder when it comes to principle. Be courteous and polite at all times, but never be pushed around. Ensure ur always treated with respect.

What you focus on gets bigger....

“The good Lord sees your heart not the braid on your jacket, before Him we are all in our birthday suits, general and common men alike”

“To see a world in a grain of sand
And a heaven in a wild flower
Hold infinity in the palm of your hand
And eternity in our hour”

'Life is a book of mystery, you never know which page will bring a good twist in the story, Keep on reading, bcoz happiness comes when it is most unexpected.....

To be just correct and static in a changing world is to be left behind inspite of all correctness.

The most imp. thing about admin is the belief in its fairplay and integrity.

Point to ponder:

1. Do it alone; it adds value! (7/22/09)

2. If you don’t know where you are going, any road will get you there!

3."The successful warrior is the average man, with laser-like focus."

4.We have only this moment, sparkling like a star in our hand... and melting like a snowflake. Let us use it before it is too late!

5. Never regret!



If it's good, it's wonderful. If it's bad, it's experience.

6.The only cure for grief is action!

7. Pleasure in trhe job puts perfection in the work! (7/30/09)



8. The wise sees knowledge and action as one; they see truly!

9. Anyone who lives within their means suffer from lack of imagination!

10. Every accomplishment starts with the decision to try!

11. No matter how far you have gone down the wrong road, turn back!

12. “The pursuit of truth and beauty is a sphere of activity in which we are permitted to remain children all our lives.”

- Albert Einstein



13.Well done is twice done! (8/7/09)

14. “Whether you think you can or think you can't — you are right!”



-Henry Ford



15 “Your work is to discover your work and then with all your heart to give yourself to it.”

16. “Time wasted is existence; used is life.”



~ Edward Young

17. “The man who moved the mountain began by carrying away small stones”



18. “You can chain me, you can torture me, you can even destroy this body, but you will never imprison my mind.”



~Mahatma Gandhi



19. “The whole secret of existence is to have no fear. Never fear what will become of you, depend on no one. Only the moment you reject all help are you freed.”



~Guatama Buddha



20. “Think positively about yourself, keep your thoughts and actions clean, ask God who made you to keep on remaking you.”



~Norman Vincent Peale



21. Appreciation is a wonderful thing; it makes what is excellent in others belong to us as well!



22. “We never listen when we are eager to speak”



23. “Life is suffering”



~Guatama Buddha



24. Don't wait for your ship to come; swim out to it!



25. “Anyone who stops learning is old, whether twenty or eighty. Anyone who keeps learning today is young. The greatest thing in life is to keep your mind young.” (25/8/09)



~ Henry Ford



Exceptions:

A. Two quotes of Chanakya – Looks good to me







“Purity of speech, of the mind, of the senses, and of a compassionate heart are needed by one who desires to rise to the divine platform”.







“The biggest guru-mantra is: never share your secrets with anybody. It will destroy you”.



B. “God is not present in idols. Your feelings are your god. The soul is your temple”.





C.“A person should not be too honest. Straight trees are cut first and honest people are screwed first”.



D. He who lives in our mind is near though he may actually be far away; but he who is not in our heart is far though he may really be nearby.



E. “As a single withered tree, if set aflame, causes a whole forest to burn, so does a rascal son destroy a whole family”.



F. “The fragrance of flowers spreads only in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all direction”.



G. In a state where the ruler lives like a common man, the citizens live like kings do. And in the state where the ruler lives like a king, the citizens live like beggars do”.



H. “The wise man should restrain his senses like the crane and accomplish his purpose with due knowledge of his place, time and ability.”



I. “What makes something special is not just what you have to gain, but what you feel there is to lose.”

Peace in You.....

You are strong.... when you take your grief and teach it to smile.
You are brave... when you overcome your fear and help others to do the same.
You are happy... when you see a flower and are thankful for the blessing.
You love... when your own pain does not blind you to the pain of others.
You are wise... when you know the limits of your wisdom.
You are true... when you admit there are times you fool yourself.
You are alive... when tomorrow's hope means more to you than yesterday's mistake.
You are growing... when you know that you are but not what you are becoming.
You are free... when you are in control of yourself but do not wish to control others.
You are honorable... when you find your honor is to honor others.
You are generous... when you can give as sweetly as you take.
You are humble... when you do not know how humble you are.
You are beautiful... when you don't need a mirror to tell you.
You are rich... when you never need more than you have.
You are you... when you are at peace with who you are not.
YOU must have a great day!!!!

Don't worry….

Don't worry about how long it will take, or what others will think of you, or how difficult it will be. Just get busy and do it.

Instead of wasting your time and energy on worry, use that time and energy for action. Instead of visualizing what you don't want, create what you do want.

Of course there will be challenges, painful mistakes, embarrassing moments and difficult efforts. But instead of worrying about them and making them worse, just go ahead, work your way through them and get them over with.

Worry fills you with doubt, and doubt eats away at your dreams. Choose instead to take action, with so much relentless determination and intensity that there's no room for worry.

Even though there will always be problems, you are truly capable of greatness. Imagine yourself fulfilling that greatness, starting right now from where you are with what you have.

Then jump enthusiastically into the journey. Forget the worries, and bring your best possibilities to life…

Points to Ponder:

Whoever you are, there is some younger person who thinks you are perfect. There is some work that will never be done, if you don’t do it. There is someone who would miss you if you were gone. There is a place that you alone can fill.
- Jacob Braude

Touch is a primal need, as necessary for growth as food, clothing or shelter. From the nuzzles and caresses between mother and infant that form the foundation of the self, to the holding of hands between a son and his dying father that allows a final letting go, touch is our most intimate and powerful form of communication. Michelangelo knew this: when he painted God extending a hand towards Adam on the ceiling of the Sistine Chapel, he chose touch to depict the gift of life.
- George Howe Colt

Life is a gift, live it, enjoy it, celebrate it, And fulfill it…

Only few remember what life was before, and who's always been there
Even in the most painful situations.
Life Is a Gift
Today before you think of saying an unkind word - Think of someone who
can't speak.
Before you complain about the taste of your food - Think of someone
who has nothing to eat.
Before you complain about your husband or wife - Think of someone
who's crying out to God for a companion.
Today before you complain about life - Think of someone who went too early to heaven.
Before you complain about your children - Think of someone who desires
children but they're barren.
Before you argue about your dirty house, someone didn't clean or sweep
Think of the people who are living in the streets.
Before whining about the distance you drive - Think of someone who
walks the same distance with their feet.
And when you are tired and complain about your job - Think of the
unemployed, the disabled and those who wished they had your job.
But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another -
Remember that not one of us are without sin and we all answer to one
maker.
And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down - Put a smile on
your face and thank God you're alive and still around.
Life is a gift, live it, enjoy it, celebrate it, And fulfill it.

Choose To Be Happy!

Stay optimistic in tough times
by Christina Julian

When trouble strikes or we fall upon difficult circumstances, we can still make decisions as to how we will chose to live with our new life circumstances. Do we look at the situation as something that has fallen upon us, leaving us beholden to those circumstances - or can we resolve to look for the happiness in the cards we're dealt?

One thing is clear. While we can't control what happens in life, we can manage our responses and our outlook. People often connect trouble or strife to a feeling of helplessness - and it's true that the bigger the hurdle, the more important it is to detect that sliver of happiness lurking below the surface. We are all granted this choice as part of our existence - to select either the bright or the not-so-bright side of things. But how do you choose?

The benefits of optimism
There is nothing wrong with wanting the best possible outcome, but when something less than that happens, a critical decision needs to be made - even in the heat of emotion. An optimistic attitude increases your likelihood of success, and it actually promotes good health. Every time you choose optimism over pessimism, your immune system gets a boost. On the flip side, when negativity infiltrates your body the odds are greater that physical and mental illness will seep in. If you want to step over to the happy side of the fence, try these tips to tap it and trap it:

5 happy steps
Stop, breathe, and then pick "happy." It sounds a bit corny, but it actually works. By breathing deeply you affect your body and mood in a positive way, ensuring that your head is in a clear state, and thus more prepared to tackle challenging situations.

Stock your "bright side" toolkit. Dig deep into your memory bank, and pull out three surefire things that make you happy or instigate laughter. Commit them to your top-of-mind memory, or just type them into your phone, calendar, or gmail account. When your sad self is threatening to overtake your happiness, swap the sapping thoughts for happy ones.

Avoid negativity. Actually pin it down, and get specific. For instance: you look outside, and it's pouring rain - on a day you are supposed to host an evening barbecue. You're hoping to avoid cancelling, since all the food and drink are already chilling on ice. Instead of getting stuck, devise a plan to avoid your worst-case scenario. Be creative and move it inside! Clear out the living room, spread out beach towels, and have a picnic. If the weather takes a turn for the better, you're still set. You could continue with the party as originally planned, or spice it up by trying something new.

Reinforce the positive. This one is a snap. When something threatens to bring you down, challenge that thought by stating your new mantra. "I choose to be happy." It doesn't mean you're not going to be upset… it just means you are choosing not to get stuck there all day long, by installing a happiness-oriented mindset. Challenge yourself to fight back when the negativity attacks. Duke it out to the finish until you've squelched the ugly naysayer within.

Invent a silver lining. Let's say it's the day before you and your family are blazing out of town for a much-needed weekend away. Your boss pops into your office and informs you that the trip will have to wait - duty calls. Sure, that is awful - but is there another way to look at it? You do have a job, after all! Also, by complying, you are agreeing to do them a "favor." This puts you in a prime position to ask for a concession in return, a make-good of sorts - because, let's face it - they owe you. Turn the negative situation into a positive by asking for an xtra vacation day, or request that you be able to leave early on Fridays for a month.

Just remember - no matter what the circumstances, you really do have a choice as to how to handle the news. There is a lot more to be gained by deciding to make the best of it. By reaching that decision now you're getting a healthier you in return - and who wouldn't get a little happy about that?

PeoPeople will NEVER forget how you made them feel….

My mother used to ask me what is the most important part of the body is.
Through the years I would take a guess at what I thought was the correct Answer. When I was younger, I thought sound was very important to us as humans, so I said, 'My ears, Mommy.'

She said, 'No. Many people are deaf. But you keep thinking about it and I will ask you again soon.'

Several years passed before she asked me again. Since making my first attempt, I had contemplated the correct answer.

So this time I told her, 'Mommy, sight is very important to everybody, so it must be our eyes.' She looked at me and told me, 'You are learning fast, but the answer is not correct because there are many people who are blind.'

Stumped again, I continued my quest for knowledge and over the years, Mother asked me a couple more times and always her answer was, 'No. But you are getting smarter every year, my child.'

Then one year, my grandfather died. Everybody was hurt. Everybody was crying. Even my father cried. I remember that especially because it was only the second time I saw him cry.

My Mom looked at me when it was our turn to say our final good-bye to my Grandfather. She asked me, 'Do you know the most important body part yet, my dear?' I was shocked when she asked me this now. I always thought this was a game between her and me.

She saw the confusion on my face and told me, 'This question is very important. It shows that you have really lived in your life. For every body part you gave me in the past, I have told you were wrong and I have given you an example why.

But today is the day you need to learn this important lesson.'
She looked down at me as only a mother can. I saw her eyes well up with tears. She said, 'My dear, the most important body part is your shoulder.'

I asked, 'Is it because it holds up my head?'

She replied, 'No, it is because it can hold the head of a friend or a loved one when they cry. Everybody needs a shoulder to cry on sometime in life, my dear. I only hope that you have enough love and friends that you will always have a shoulder to cry on when you need it.'

Then and there I knew the most important body part is not a selfish one. It is made for others and not for yourself. It is sympathetic to the pain of others.

People will forget what you said. People will forget what you did. But people will NEVER forget how you made them feel.